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AIM chat and buddy list over the Windows XP desktopScreenshot: AOL; screenshot via Beyond Boundaries with Shane / Medium

1997 - 2017

AIM

“You've got away messages.”

Birth year
1997
Shutdown year
2017
Lifespan
20 years
Peak era
1999-2006
Company
AOL
Category
Messaging

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What Was It?

AIM was the buddy list that introduced a generation to online status, away messages, and screen name identity.

An AIM session started with a decision about how to appear to other people: choose a screen name, check the buddy list, and decide whether to be available or away. Those small signals made the desktop feel social before a public feed became the usual center of online life. An away message could be practical, a song lyric, or an invitation for someone particular to notice.

What disappeared with AIM was more than a chat window. Its recognizable combination of presence, private conversation, and personal expression belonged to a time when going online was often a deliberate part of the day.

Things You Probably Forgot

  • Away message poetry
  • Buddy icons
  • Door opening sounds
  • Screen name regret
  • Profile stalking

The Story

  • 1997 AIM launched.
  • 2000 Became central to teen internet life.
  • 2010 Usage declined sharply.
  • 2017 AOL shut it down.

How It Died

Texting, social networks, and mobile messaging made desktop buddy lists obsolete.

What Replaced It?

iMessageFacebook MessengerDiscord

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